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    4 March 2026•

    Discover What Moves You — And Who Moves With You

    What moves you shows up in your calendar and your choices — not just in what you say.

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    The Space Between What Moves You and How You Live

    There's who you want to be — and who you actually are day to day. That gap drives quiet friction in relationships and wellbeing. Most of us only notice it in crisis. What if you could map it in 15 minutes and discover what's really motivating you?

    What moves youHow you’re living itThe gap

    Connection

    Freedom

    Growth

    Security

    Presence

    The amber bar is the gap — no judgment, just clarity.


    Beyond "What Do You Value?"

    Standard tests ask you to rank a list of values. Useful, but incomplete. The real question: what's the gap between what motivates you and how you're actually living? The assessment does two passes — what moves you vs. how you're living it — and scores authenticity and tension so you see that gap clearly.


    Phase 1: Get Your Results (No Sharing Yet)

    Your results are yours first. The assessment has two parts, back to back:

    1. What moves you — What you genuinely want to be true in your life.
    2. How you're living today — Where your time and energy go (and where you make trade-offs).

    You get: core values, an authenticity score (0–100), gap analysis, and harmony/tension pairs. No AI. Scores are computed from your answers with a deterministic algorithm.

    Free · ~15 minutes · No AI

    Discover Your Core Values

    The Deep Values Assessment asks you to rate what you value in an ideal life, then how you actually live. 100% human-driven — no AI is involved at any step.

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    Requires a free account. Your results are private — you control who sees them.


    Why Seeing Alignment (or Not) Matters

    Discovering what motivates you is useful on its own. Seeing how it aligns — or doesn't — with someone else is something else entirely. When two people compare, the system shows shared core values, harmony pairs, and friction values — not judgment, just visibility.


    Phase 2: Sharing — Discover Overlap With Someone Else

    Separate from your results, you can share a link or QR code. When the other person completes their own assessment, the system combines both result sets and shows where you align.

    Both profiles required. You never see each other's raw scores — only the computed alignment. Your results are private by default; the link only triggers the comparison. No AI is involved in the alignment.

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    Share Your Profile

    Generate a QR code or share a link — anyone who scans it sees a values alignment comparison with you.

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    The Bigger Picture

    The assessment doesn't produce a label — it produces a map of what moves you. A map you can share with people who matter to you. Warmer, more specific, and when shared — more useful for the connections that sustain us.


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    Confidentiality

    Results are stored on your private account; not visible to staff, advertisers, or third parties. No AI is trained on your responses. You can delete your data anytime from account settings.


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